If you’ve ever scratched your head trying to figure out cái này, cái đó, and cái kia, don’t worry—you’re not alone. But I promise it’s much easier than it seems. Let’s break it down the lazy way (because smart people don’t waste energy, right? 😏)


💡 First, What Do They All Mean?

All three mean “this” or “that” depending on how far the object is from the speaker and listener.

VietnameseMeaningEnglish Equivalent
cái nàyThis one (near me)this
cái đóThat one (near you)that
cái kiaThat one over there (far from both)that over there

📍 Think of It Like This:

Imagine you and your friend are shopping at a market.

  • You point at the phone in your hand:
    👉 “Cái này rẻ.” → This one is cheap.
  • You point at the phone your friend is holding:
    👉 “Cái đó đẹp.” → That one is beautiful.
  • You both look at a phone on the table far away:
    👉 “Cái kia mắc quá!” → That one over there is too expensive!

🎯 Pro Tips:

  • “Cái” is just a classifier for most objects or things. You can swap it depending on what you’re talking about:
    • Con này (this animal)
    • Chiếc đó (that vehicle)
    • Người kia (that person over there)
  • Want to sound even more natural? Point + say the word = 100% success.

🧠 TL;DR for Lazy Learners:

WordUse When…Example
cái nàyIt’s near youCái này ngon. (This is tasty.)
cái đóIt’s near themCái đó lạ. (That’s strange.)
cái kiaIt’s far from everyoneCái kia to. (That one is big.)

🐣 Final Tip from Lintu Guru:

Don’t try to memorize—imagine the scene. Vietnamese is all about context and vibe. Use your finger to point, smile, and say it. Your brain (and your crush) will thank you. 😉

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